I remember reading a book with this title written by Rick Warren. As per instruction, i read one chapter each day for 40 days but i can’t recall the title of the chapters, not even one. There was a part where reflection is needed then a question is being ask at the end of the reading.
Just last month, i got hold of a book written by David Niven, a well-known Psychologist here in the US that compiled a study made by Scientist on the 100 Secrets of Happy People and the number one of which is “Your Life has Purpose and Meaning”. Each of the 100 entries is based on the research conclusions of scientists studying happiness and life satisfaction. His book offers 100 simple pieces of advise and examples of how people find happiness and stay happy. It will help differentiate happy from the unhappy ones.
He said we’re not here just to fill space or to be a background character in someone’ else movie. Nothing would be the same if we did not exist. Every place we had been and everyone we have spoken to would be different without us. We’re all connected and we’re all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.
Is my purpose clear to me? I think so. Even as a child, i had my purpose and i know i had to contribute to the survival of my family.While my older siblings are enjoying their teen-age life, i was busy looking for ways to earn money to help put food in our table. I had many small jobs which can be considered child labor but that was how i spent my free time while growing up. I still play with friends but i always had productive activities. I thought it was my responsibility to always give and provide. This thinking was instilled in me until now.
It pained me when there was a time in our married life that we can’t provide for the needs of our children. It became my catalyst to look for other opportunities aside from the job i was holding back then. When my second child wanted to study in Manila like her older sibling, it meant trouble for we could not afford to send 2 students in Manila. Our (my husband included) desire to support her dreams made us decide to try our luck in a foreign land under an unfavorable condition. I believe there is a purpose why i’m still here.
I also discovered another purpose – that is to teach and to influence others. Many of my friends in CFC community believed that i have this charism. And i would like to nurture this. I consider my stay here as a temporary exile while still providing for my children’s needs but i know there will come a time that i can live my purpose of living. I’m looking forward to the day when i can use the talents God has given me to provide not only for my immediate family but also for others. My life would then become more meaningful and significant.
